All relationships are energy exchanges. Are you giving and receiving equally?

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Morning Meditation from The GratiDude

Family business.

Whether we realize it or not, we all have a family business. Maybe not in the traditional sense of a hardware store that has been passed down from generation to generation or a restaurant or some other business that is commonly run by different generations of families over time.

The family business I refer to is simply the energetic exchanges and all the ongoing day-to-day management of herding cats and handling coordination and everybody getting where they need to be in an on-time fashion.    To make sure that the buses are running on time, that the garbage is being picked up on the city streets, that all of the schools are open and operational, and that all of the farmers are delivering food to the grocery stores so that we can prepare dinner later tonight.

 

How do we communicate and exchange energy with the people we love in our family?

I sent a text last night asking the mother of my kids and my three kids for confirmation that a QR code was working that I was using for one of my businesses. I asked for some guinea pig feedback to make sure that I had set up the QR code properly when I copy and pasted it from webpage I was looking to provide direction to and drive traffic to.

One of the four family members responded, and I could’ve predicted who it would’ve been, and it was not the adult.  

I find it interesting that the people I really care for the most and do anything for would not respond to this message and it just tells me that they’re not very present or being very sensitive to what the favor is that I was asking.  It would only take 10 seconds to check to see if QR code was working and simply send a thumbs up and it really is important to me, or I wouldn’t have asked.

For me, I really don’t understand not responding at all to a message from somebody that you care about.

I can see how I would’ve missed that need to respond in my past life with alcohol and anxiety. However, now, it is just incomprehensible to not respond to a message from somebody I care about.

 

It’s also a reminder that the people that would not respond to a message asking for help are people that are not truly energetically in my squad or super aligned with where I am  at this point in my life.

That’s OK, I am still there for them, I just need to lower my expectations, that’s all.

Yes, families can have energy exchanges, and these exchanges can be influenced by social relations and cultural values. In fact, energy exchange is a fundamental part of life and a key concept in the study of human physiology, metabolism, and nutrition. 

In emerging energy systems, energy researchers and practitioners envision households playing an active role in local energy distribution. One article suggests that energy exchanges between households can be conceptualized as a “circle of mutual energy exchange”. This circle can include both “mutual energy sharing” and “mutual energy trading”

I’m happy that I don’t take this as personally as I used to or feel like it is a sign of rejection or something like that and it is merely consistent behavior with people that are living in a fight or flight state and are not calm and grounded.  It just goes with the territory.

It is a reminder that working on yourself from a personal development standpoint is the only way that you can improve your presence and your ability to be available for the people that you love the most.  

In other words, to crush your business, your family business, you must be connected to your breath and present in the moment of now, so you can make good decisions and be energetically available for the people that are most important to you.

It’s a family affair folks, whether it’s your family, your biological family, or your tribe of friends that have chosen you and you have chosen them, all of these have energetic exchanges and to function or to be at their most healthiest we need to be at our own most healthiest.

I’m sending a separate email out to all of you requesting your participation in the Grateful4 Org’s next coaching series, which will help each of you build a solid routine of health and wellness brick by brick(breath by breath, to be more accurate).  

  • We will answer all your questions.

  • Clarify key concepts

  • Introduce you to new techniques

  • A new weekly super Sherpa every week to share vital knowledge and subject matter expertise

  • Collectively we will pursue our own form of personal greatness.

TGIF and positive universal salutations from the Gulf Coast, where we survive and thrive with an attitude of gratitude.

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Every day, every way, grateful. 

KC

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