A Word birthed the Cosmos-it is that powerful. Use Loving Speech for a Loving World.
This world would look a lot different if all Humans and young people were educated around neuroscience and self-talk from a very young age. Adults are harder to move, however they also need to understand the impact of language and messaging that they received growing up. This way, you can understand which examples and models would be beneficial for their own family and friends, and which examples do not serve and create trauma or toxic relationships.
We don’t realize that in life we have what we call role models, and people that we look up to whose behavior matches up with what we would like to do, and those are really critical people in our lives. We could always use more role models and Mentors.
The reality is for everyone role model that is positive like that, we often end up having numerous energetic influences that come into our lives that are at best neutral and in many cases are perceived as negative through our conscious awareness.
Or the language or tones that they use and communicating with us are not positive reaffirming, loving, or uplifting.
I personally realized that I had created some traumatic memories with my kids by yelling, especially when they were younger, and I was still drinking.
It was the ferociousness and the tone and what a dramatic shift it was from my normal speaking patterns that is so jarring at least that’s what my kids explain to me once I realize what I’ve been doing, and I wanted to stop doing it.
I started to include some reminders and supporting affirmations during my meditation about consciously controlling my language and energy. ESPECIALLY with my children, to make sure that all my words are kind and match up with the love in my heart.
Furthermore, I told my 14 year old that was because of her that I was able to realize that I needed to change this behavior and I also realize how potentially traumatic yelling to kids.
So I think for teaching me this and I tell her that pretty consistently and give her credit for my evolution in my thought process.
This also serves to demonstrate to Willa, my youngest, that I’m not afraid to be vulnerable and honest, and that I look at learning and growing as a lifelong process and something that I’m committed to, even when it can be difficult, challenging or bruising to my ego when I have to admit that I’ve been making some mistakes along the way.
Watch this video here you’ll feel the love and this man’s heart to his family and you don’t even need to know what family he has or how big they are. it is so beautiful and authentic and real. It makes me want to just celebrate love and families in general and the bond that we all share which is so special.
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It’s ironic that I share this today on July 28th which this year is the 40th anniversary of my father Arthur E. Carpenter, choosing to take his own life in the cornfields outside of Ann Arbor Michigan.
And I wouldn’t change a thing.
This is what made me who I am.
This is what put me on my path and every single challenge and difficult thing that I’ve experienced are the equivalent of a little stones being poured into my foundation, which allow me to walk on solid footing today.
To be able to control and monitor your speech and language so that it is not harmful it is necessary to use your breath and stay connected to the generous present moment of now.
Now is where self-control resides, as well as where love lives and patiently wait for us to return.
Enjoy your Sunday and share loving words with all that you meet and remember we’re all just growing and learning and we’re here to walk each other home….. with an Attitude of Gratitude.
EVERY DAY:
Love
and
Gratitude
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