Only Assholes with no gratitude or God judge you, and you are worried about THEM??
A really great exercise for everyone to do if you’re not clear on this, is to make a list of what you could call your 4 AM Squad.
Your 4 AM Squad is the group of people that are really there for all of the tough stuff through thick and thin and that even if you reached out to them at 4 AM, if their ringer was on their phone, they would respond and do what it takes to get you out of whatever situation or predicament you have put yourself in.
That 4 AM squad is not long list of people and it is probably comprised of people that are the majority of your core group of opinions that should matter to you when you make decisions.
In other words, there are such few people whose opinion matter yet most people are constantly evaluating what they are doing and making decisions based upon the opinions of people that either they don’t even know or they certainly don’t care about very much.
When your thoughts drift into wondering what other people will think as a factor in making a decision, you risk not expressing yourself fully and lowering your level of permission for joy. Don’t do this. Your life and vibration will lack truthfulness simply because you are concerned about the impression you might make on people that you really don’t give a shit about.
This is so toxic and unhealthy, and just a constant source of detachment from the messages and listening to your higher self self or the instructions that come from something bigger than you whatever you perceive that to be.
I love this video because the young man here confesses to the fact that he was extremely socially uncomfortable for a long time, very insecure and suffered a great deal of anxiety and trauma due to his inability to accept himself, and to be true to his real personality.
Now he makes it his mission to help other people liberate themselves by demonstrating socially extreme behaviors, and the fact that he never gets hurt that nobody really cares and then everything is just fine.
He’ll walk into a bar and talk to the most beautiful people in there without fear of rejection, ask a perfect stranger, another man, for a hug on the street with no concerns, and speaking of street, he’ll even lay down in the middle of the street on his back, high-fiving people as they walk by just to show you that it’s really no big deal to be silly or to act goofy!!
And his lines that is so awesome, to paraphrase he says that “it is that the only people that are judging you are toxic, unhealthy people and it’s really just a mirror unto themselves”
WOW!!
It is obvious that this young man has spent a lot of time, meditating and marinating on the types of abuse and toxic language. He probably received because of his either social awkwardness, physical appearance, behavior, tendencies, etc..
I love people that crack the code on some thing that has really helped them and then instead of just enjoying it, turn around and do all they can to share it with everyone in the hopes that other people could find the same benefits, improve the quality of their life and simply have more joy.
This video really speaks to what we covered in week two of our coaching session around a concept called “permission levels”.
Permission levels is the concept that we all subconsciously control how we demonstrate emotions and our feelings, and it manifest in a concept, called a permission level or how much permission we give ourselves to express our true feelings.
When you crank up your permission level to the highest height yo FREE your heart, your mind and your spirit to be aligned, and to not constantly worry about whether or not your behavior is acceptable or what other people might think of you based upon your effervescence or emotive characteristics.
A more direct way to say this is the way that the great profit George Clinton, the founder of the Parliament Funkadelic collective, as he urged all of his listeners and followers to “free your mind and your ass will follow”.
Great advice from a Soulful Friend that you can always choose your attitude and over here, the way that we roll is the same one that Bootsy Collins chooses, and that’s with a Funky Attitude of Gratitude.
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