Want to change the world INSTANTLY? Share love with a Stranger. That’s it.
What is the antidote for our current state of affairs in Humanity?
The lack of connection?
The antidote is right here for what is ailing our society.
Folks like this young man that are willing to do something so radical that you never see it in a public place: share love with a stranger!!!
Ahhh!!! Call 911!!!
This is such a great way to start conversations and also for individuals to reflect upon the fact that they need more connection in their life, and perhaps need more affection and that it plain and simple “feels good to feel good”.
The body language, and the way that he approaches with arms wide open and then also mentions the fact that he’s had a very rough day.
He’s asking for compassion and sympathy and being vulnerable and offering himself as someone who could use this particular person’s help.
Not later, not some other time in the future but right NOW!!
Would you give a hug to this guy? Of course you would. Watch please.
This may be a little bit over the top for most of us to attempt(other than me… which can’t wait to do it myself and I’m gonna get some shirts printed up and make it happen. Stay tuned.), however we can dial it down a little bit and do an equivalent of sharing love with strangers and we can do it with simple eye contact, and a “hello”.
To be able to do something like this, you can’t be self-absorbed and living in your own thoughts and rehashing things that happened yesterday.
You can’t have your arms open providing good energy and asking for a hug if you’re thinking about a conversation that you need to have tomorrow with your boss.
You must be present to make people feel that the moment is about them.
You have to be here NOW.
You can try your own little experiment.
I’ve done it hundreds of times, but try thinking about love and how we are all connected either through faith through your religion through spirituality, or even just through the hard science of the interconnectedness of all energy in the universe.
When you look someone in the eye and say hello with loving thoughts, it completely changes how people react.
All Folks can feel the energy without even knowing why they have the feeling they do at that moment, however, it helps them recognize the sincerity of your greeting and puts real “teeth” into the hello. Nice loving teeth, of course.
Also keep in mind that all of the witnesses to your kindness when you perform Godly acts of compassion or kindness, or simply just say hello, other see the interaction and it also releases positive chemicals in the brain like serotonin and other endorphins.
https://www.randomactsofkindness.org/the-science-of-kindness
click here for more on the science of kindness
Just another example of something you can do by concentrating and being present in all of your interactions that creates real change your relationships in yourself and in your Community.
Here is the Breakdown Folks:
The Love Hormone
Witnessing acts of kindness produces oxytocin, occasionally referred to as the ‘love hormone’ which aids in lowering blood pressure and improving our overall heart-health. Oxytocin also increases our self-esteem and optimism, which is extra helpful when we’re anxious or shy in a social situation. Natalie Angier, The New York Times
Energy
“About half of participants in one study reported that they feel stronger and more energetic after helping others; many also reported feeling calmer and less depressed, with increased feelings of self-worth” Christine Carter, UC Berkeley, Greater Good Science Center
Lifespan
“People who volunteer tend to experience fewer aches and pains. Giving help to others protects overall health twice as much as aspirin protects against heart disease. People 55 and older who volunteer for two or more organizations have an impressive 44% lower likelihood of dying early, and that’s after sifting out every other contributing factor, including physical health, exercise, gender, habits like smoking, marital status and many more. This is a stronger effect than exercising four times a week or going to church.”
Acknowledge others with authentic real kindness by simply saying hello.
Do your best to look people in the eye and concentrate on being loving in the process and what you will see is an expansion of everyone’s Attitude of Gratitude.
EVERY DAY:
Love
and
Gratitude
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Thank you sincerely.
The G.I.F.T. Today
Grateful: for my recognition of my need to accept more love and be a better receiver. Lessons have been coming and my eyes and heart are wide open.
Intention-same flow on the yoga mat as in the car, keep is flowing and cool
First-time for a walk on beach before departure
Things-Plan with Chuckwagon on XM-get a meeting,
REGISTER YOUR SPOT …STILL TIME!!!
AND PLAYERS, GET BETTER…..NOW!
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Every day, every way, grateful.
KC
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