Are you making it attractive for the right person to come sit with you? What bait are YOU using?
How open are we to meeting the right people?
How do you put out the right Bate for the right people in your life?
I’ve written here before referencing the lyrics from the song fishing by Taj Mahal, and he sings in his lyrics that “any fish bites when you got good bait”.
Ain’t that the truth?
“Many fish bites if ya’ got good bait,
Here’s a little tip that I would like to relate.
Many fish bites if ya’ got good bait.
I’m a goin fishin’, Yes I’m goin’ fishin,
And my baby goin’ fishin’ too.”
I don’t know about you, but for me, sometimes in our lives, we end up reeling in fish into our boat and we keep those fish just because we caught them.
Not necessarily because they’re tasty or in season or even of the acceptable length to be considered “a keeper “, we’re just so damn happy that a fish chose our bait over that which was on the hooks of others, that we’re not even gonna worry about the details.
The truth be told, we are often times better off just cruising around in our boat with no fish in it versus keeping fish that aren’t edible or aren’t legal.
I love the guy in the video here, my funk, master fish, reading, playful, lemonade, serving dude here.
https://instagram.com/p/C7mBJheuUbb/
You see, he set his environment up in such a way that it was 100% comfortable and perfect for his relaxation and enjoyment and anyone else that would find that attractive would be riding a similar frequency to his or they wouldn’t accept the offer to stop and chill in his pop-up lounge.
The cool thing here is that his guest, who is energetically aligned with him, agrees to participate in his lounging, that’s when our musician brings into action and provides a performance now that he has a firmed that his audience is on the same page as him from a vibe stand point.
I’m in an interesting situation in my life that’s part of an overall shift where I’m really clear with how I will use my energy and I am laser focused on building something incredible for the service of others globally and I need to be surrounded by only the greatest most supportive people I can find.
What I’ve done to attract the people that I need to help me pursue my dreams and my calling of helping others is to be really consistent in my approach to each day, and not accept mediocrity or “fair weathered friends” that dip in and out. Here are a few examples:
I get up every day before the sun and start my day with breath, work meditation and gratitude. I have not missed a day of this in five years.
I never ever under any circumstances, engage with my telephone or receive any digital communication or information prior to my morning routine and meditation. The only exception would be an emergency or something that required immediate attention outside of my control.
I will not tolerate undermining language or negative energy in regards to my pursuits my personal path or the choices I have made in my life.
Eat only clean foods and avoid processed foods, drink lots of water.
Be present with everyone I meet and communicate loving intention energetically with eye contact, and sincere greeting and mindful conversation. Everyone.
Exercise every single day, some form of stretching every single day and a yoga practice at least 25 days a month.
Consistency is what gives you a vote in my Congress.
In other words don’t show up every few months or every six months and expect that your vote counts the same as somebody that’s been here in the trenches with me for the last year of what has been the most difficult year of my life.
You get fewer electoral votes, Rhode Island, than does Texas ha ha.
I’ve trimmed down my friends to just those that are also in pursuit of personal growth and really focused on challenging themselves to get better every day, these are the people that inspire me and that I want to be around. I would rather read, listen to music, and be completely by myself vs. having company just to have people around. I am cool solo, really, I don’t need to be around people anymore, however, I love people more than ever.
I look at how I’m rebuilding my Kevin Carpenter 2.0 over the last few years and I’m taking the approach as I would for a golf shot or a tea shot that really matters to me during a round of golf.
If I focus on where I want to end up center cut, or to hit a fairway and pipe a drive 260 right down the middle, this results based thinking or ego desire for accomplishment does not serve me at all at this moment of getting ready to hit the shot.
My focus needs to be on the process of my swing, my breathing relaxation, and the things that I know I need to focus on small steps in order to create a swing that has a high likelihood of delivering the result I want with the ball.
In a similar fashion, my focus is been on asking for help from the accomplished business people already in the world of coaching, teaching and servicing others, as well as other individual entrepreneurs to tap into their personal experience on how to accelerate and prioritize.
Right here in Sarasota a handful of mentors have really bad pivotal when they’ve seen how serious I am approaching my current activities and businesses so big thanks to Doc Tracy, TypeCoach Rob, Sherpa to the Sherpas Kent, And recently bought Christina and Honor have put their shoulders to the wheel and also offered help in developing our programmatic activity and getting the word out about the opportunity for this unique group learning Self-Summit.
These folks came to help me because of the process I was following and the energy I was putting out, and just like the lounge that my Funkmaster set up, I was broadcasting something that was attractive and something that these kind mentors women and men aligned with and wished to support.
Having the courage to shift and change and to be very vocal and to invest in the law of attraction with my new endeavor, though, otherwise there would be no lounge set up there would be no chair. There would be no pink lemonade for folks to want to be a part of.
You have to set the table if you want to come to your dinner.
I remember a few years ago meeting someone that was a little bit further down their journey, tackling addiction and really getting onto excepting their gifts and working on becoming greater and greater every day and they sort of warn me that there would be a period before explosive growth where you have to isolate and thin your own herd and it can be a lonely experience.
When you’re not ready for certain types of emotional relationships because your entirely focused on your personal project or mission to complete your transformation or at least to get the train on the tracks.
I spent last summer in virtual isolation living on 10 acres in northern Michigan and just about every day. I had spontaneous moments of grief and crying because of some obvious changes that were going down in my personal life.
It was the coldest hardest of my life last summer, and it was perfect.
Just what I needed.
As crazy as that sounds.
Because now I’m about to have the hottest summer in my life, both figurative and literally, as I feel like my life is literally just blooming and exploding into clear view and all of the work that I’ve been putting in for the last few years.
We are bringing fruits to so many people and our messaging and programs will become the backbone of not just a business enterprise, but more importantly a global movement of awareness that leverages gratitude.
I no longer have any shadow of doubt as to if the fundamentals of what we’re beginning to teach are going to become a global phenomenon, because I already know they are and they will be.
The information is just too valuable and impactful not to be MASSIVE!
The teachings of what we’re sharing are not mine at all, I am simply the aggregator. We are bringing a combination of both brand new and ancient teachings and everything in between, all valuable and useful information for YOU and YOUR quest for to understand the nature of reality, YOUR own life, and what this journey is all about for YOU!
I’m here to tell you that the only way to start figuring that out is to stop living your life in some other time…. either the future of the past….. and to get your ass back here to the right now!
This is where your life is happening.
We’re all waiting for you, just like my guy in the lounge chair, and the GratiDude even went out back to the Pink Lemon tree and squeezed pink lemons so that you could sit your butt down and have a sip of a cool refreshing drink, and celebrate your Attitude of Gratitude.
EVERY DAY:
Love
and
Gratitude
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Thank you sincerely.
The G.I.F.T. Today
Grateful: for the constant reminders to not take things too seriously, just doing the best I can every day.
Intention-continue to work on even energy flow including when driving
First-finish email started
Things-dates confirmed last night, can send Sherpa dates today
Every day, every way, grateful.
KC
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